Thursday, June 19, 2014

You’ve Got To Know When It’s Over


by: Ruby Ann Puzon
 

Let me tell you something. It's not that I'm hateful. It's that I'm faithful and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll gave it to me and if it takes too much sweat then I don't need it. They said stop begging people to stay. You need to know when to let go. Am I talking to myself? No. It's for all. I mean, hey ruby it's easier said than done. Yeah, I admit but the bible says that: " they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt that they would have continued with us[1 John 2:19]
 

Okay, what I'm trying to say is.
 

When people can walk away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. But ruby, it's again easier said than done. I know. I know. How could you just let go of the person that means the whole world to you for just like that. I am preferably talking to: just like a blink of an eye or in a one-microsecond fast. BUt you know what? God said: I will not leave you, nor forsake you. I am holding on to that.
 

Hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk to another person in begging to stay with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you, making a future with you. I mean hang up the phone! wake up!

If you love the person, you have to let go. If he comes back then you were made for each other, if he never then maybe you were never meant for each other. Maybe it is my calling, maybe God wants me to touch people's lives, maybe God uses me as an instrument, maybe God wants the others to realize that there is a good person and hoping that they will be changed through that instrument, maybe God uses me as a sacrificial lamb.

 

People leave you because they are not joined to you. People leave you for many reasons. They have their own reasons. So much reasons that sometimes you do not understand. They have to fulfill their needs, they have to show to the world that they are strong, strong enough to break people's quiet lives, they have to continue to use their masks, the mask of masculinity, the mask of perfect flawless people, the mask of pride and the mask of selfishness. It's their choice ruby, so get over it, okay!
 

Anyway, hey ruby, come on! It means that their part of the story with you is over. And you've got to know that its over okay? How could you be so stupid to hang on to a dream that is never gonna happen, never gonna come true, never gonna be in reality. A story of..." and they live happily ever after.." is not for you, not for me, not this time. You have your own perfect time, God's perfect time. A time for you to enjoy the fruits of your labor.
 

You have to empty and emotional baggage. Just imagine all your worries, all your tears, all your problems and all the people that have hurt you..all inside the back pack. I'm pretty sure that its heavier than you can ever imagine. Heavy that you cannot carry it on your back. It's impossible. This time is for you to unpack and throw away all those unnecessary things in the back pack. So that in everyday life, you can carry it with a smile.
 

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life. You have to learn to let go.
 

If you are going astray, if your soul is hungry for the truth, if your soul is dying to death to know what's wrong don't worry, God said: I love you and I will never leave you.
 

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth, and you are struggling with your relationship then you have to learn to let go...

For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory is yours, now and forever. Amen. 




 

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